have you been in a situation wherein, though you know it will hurt you, you'll still hold on to?

i was with my friend last night. she broke up with her boyfriend. it was her first. her boyfriend is kinda "lost" according to her. for a long time, it was their set-up. but she held on to their relationship because she really loves him and she doesn't want to lose the relationship, she did everything. but she realized it's enough. though she broke up with him, she still loves the guy and i know it's hurting her.

i know a girl, his boyfriend broke up with her. it wasn't easy for her because they still see each other, they are not dating but because they have work to do. the guy broke up with her because he doesn't have time anymore for his girlfriend. they've been together four 4years. it hurts the girl to see the guy treating her like nothing had happened between them. so casual. she still oves the guy and i know it's hurting her.

i know a guy, who loves this girl for a long time. he would even change his religion just for the girl. but this girl loves somebody else. he told this girl about his feelings, but the girl said it was just friendship. up to now, this guy loves the girl and i know it's hurting him.

i know a girl who loves her bestfriend, her bestfriend chose to be just a bestfriend to her. her bestfriend has a girlfriend now. the girl still loves her bestfriend and i know it's hurting her.

i know a guy who loves this girl and is willing to fight for her. just so happened that this girl cannot fight for him. the girl chose her family over this guy. the guy can't do anything but to still love her and i know it's hurting him.

i know a girl who really loves this guy and the guy loves him too. people don't want the two of them together. they said they weren't for each other. they think it would only hurt them if they keep on loving each other.

why do we have to love and end up hurting? hmm....